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Who Says That's Impossible?
I spend so much time thinking about midlife, that sometimes I forget one of its very best features.
It ends.
What lies on the other side of midlife is sometimes described by people in their 50's and 60's with glee. It's a freedom from fakery, people-pleasing and scrutiny. It's generous and comm...
Apr 27, 2026
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Skiing the Trees.
Living in Santa Cruz, California in my mid-20s, my friend Jean and I would often zip up to Lake Tahoe to go snowboarding at Kirkwood Resort.
On one of those trips, the powder was waist-deep and spectacular, and we were riding through the trees. Both of us were smart enough to stay away from the ...
Dec 23, 2025
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Why Beginners Mind Matters - AI Edition
I heard someone say once: If I had a friend who lied to me as much as my thoughts do, I would not be friends with them.
Most people not only accept the stories in their heads as pure truth, but don't even know how to challenge them, using questions like:
How true is this?
What else might be true...
Nov 11, 2025
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