Private Coaching

Is it empty nest? Divorce? Pending retirement? Sobriety? Perimenopause? These are scary transitions, and having a trusted guide matters.

You're not looking for motivation necessarily, you've got that. You need clarity, honesty and an experienced guide. 

Our work together is shaped by your real life. There’s no framework to follow, no curriculum to complete. We pay attention to what’s happening for you — at work, at home, in your heart — and take it seriously.

I listen for what’s ending and for what’s trying to begin. What do you want? Why do you want that? What's in the way? How do we got get it? 

This is not about fixing. It’s about reorienting your life toward what's true now.

I only work with a small number of motivated women so our work stays attentive and effective. 

The Book

Death to Sparkleprincess: A beginners guide to midlife, faith & meaningful work. 

I wrote Death to Sparkleprincess to map the messy but necessary terrain we're invited to traverse at midlife. Here's what I know for sure.

Midlfe is not a crisis and it never was.

But nobody teaches us that.

There is no shame in saying, "I can’t do this version of myself anymore." In fact, there's a developmental reason, we outgrow a life that once worked. The world needs more wise elders to step in and lead. 

So all the performing, the pleasing, the perfection, it has to die. Sparkleprincess learned the hard way, so you don't have to.  

This isn’t self-improvement. It's a story about becoming something else through faith, work and community. It's a companion for women trying to name what’s ending and build what's next.

How I Think About Midlife

Click here to watch the full 18 minute training.